In step five, the monk is called not to conceal from his abbot any sinful thoughts entering his heart, or any wrongs committed in secret, but rather to confess them humbly.[1] Put simply, the monk is to be open and honest about the state of his soul. Is he murmuring is his heart? Is he holding back anything? Is he truly giving himself completely to God?
It is important to have an open dialog with one’s superior. It is best, however, not to rely solely upon one’s superior to assist one in growing in the spiritual life. Each monastic should have a spiritual director/confessor whom he regularly sees to share those things that are lying heavy on his heart. This “spiritual father” should be able to challenge the monastic, offer encouragement and at times even help to guide the ship of one’s life.
Another part of this step should include being honest with self and others about gifts and talents and a job well done. All too often it is neglected to see the gifts and talents God has endowed and just see them as something one knows how to do. The same could be said about seeing the extra effort someone puts forth on a specific task. Acknowledging these is equally important.
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